Yemeni child bride, 12, dies in labour
A 12-year-old Yemeni child-bride died after struggling for three days in labour to give birth, a local human rights organization said.
Fawziya Abdullah Youssef died of severe bleeding on Friday, 11.Sept.2009 while giving birth to a stillborn in the al-Zahra district hospital of Hodeida province, 140 miles west of the capital San’a.
Child marriages are widespread in Yemen, the Arab world’s poorest country, where tribal customs dominate society. More than a quarter of the country’s females marry before age 15, according to a recent report by the Social Affairs Ministry.
Youssef was only 11 when her father married her to a 24-year-old man who works as a farmer in Saudi Arabia.
Al-Quraishi, whose group promotes child rights in Yemen, said that he stumbled upon Youssef in the hospital while investigating cases of children who had fled from the fighting in the north.
“This is one of many cases that exist in Yemen,” said al-Quraishi. “The reason behind it is the lack of education and awareness, forcing many girls into marriage in this very early age.”
Impoverished parents in Yemen sometimes give away their young daughters in return for hefty dowries. There is also a long-standing tribal custom in which infant daughters and sons are promised to cousins in hopes it will protect them from illicit relationships, he said.
Al-Quraishi said there are no statistics to show how many marriages involving children are performed every year.
The issue of child brides vaulted into the headlines here two years ago when an 8-year-old Yemeni girl, Nujood Ali went by herself to a courtroom and demanded a judge dissolve her marriage to a man in his 30s. She eventually won a divorce, and legislators began looking at ways to curb the practice.
In February, parliament passed a law setting the minimum marriage age at 17. But some lawmakers are trying to kill the measure, calling it un-Islamic. Before it could be ratified by Yemen’s president, they forced it to be sent back to parliament’s constitutional committee for review.
Such marriages also occur in neighbouring oil-rich Saudi Arabia, where several cases of child brides have been reported in the past year, though the phenomenon is not believed to be nearly as widespread as in Yemen.
By Associated Press Writer Ahmed Al-Haj, 14.Sept.2009
Child Marriage
Throughout the developing world, millions of girls are married off to virtual strangers while they are still just children.
Some are as young as six or seven years old when they are married. The girls themselves rarely have any say in the matter. Many do not even know or fully understand what is planned for them until they arrive at their husband’s home.
In families with limited resources, child marriage is often considered a way to provide for a daughter’s future. Poor families have few resources to support more healthy alternatives for girls, while economic gains through marrying off a daughter may also motivate poor parents to choose this path.
Worldwide, 100 million girls will be married before the age of 18 in the next decade alone. In countries like Niger and Bangladesh, grinding poverty and adherence to tradition results in more than three out of every four girls being married off before they turn 18 (ICRW).
What are the risks for young girls?
Child marriage is a great threat to young girls, for health and other reasons:
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Child brides are often pressured to bear children themselves long before their bodies are fully developed. Combined with lack of power, lack of information, and reduced access to health services, it can be disastrous. Girls younger than 15 are five times more likely to die in childbirth than women in their 20s, and pregnancy is the leading cause of death worldwide for girls ages 15 to 19. Early childbearing can cause obstetric fistula (when a young mother’s vagina, bladder and/or rectum tear during childbirth) a condition that causes urine and faeces leakage, often resulting in ostracism.
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Adolescent childbirth is extremely dangerous for the infant, as well. Children born to young girls are far more likely to perish than are children born to older mothers.
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Young brides are at higher risk for contracting HIV/AIDS. Girls are often married to significantly older men who are more likely to have contracted HIV in their lifetime. In sub-Saharan Africa, married girls have a notably greater risk of HIV infection than sexually active single girls of the same age because married girls cannot abstain from sex or insist on the use of condoms. One study in Kenya and Zambia showed a young girl’s married status increased the chances of her contracting HIV by an astounding 75 percent! (ICRW)
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After marriage, young girls’ access to formal and even non-formal education is greatly limited because of domestic burdens, childbearing, and social norms that view marriage and schooling as incompatible. Removal from school is often the first thing that will happen to a child bride. This is particularly tragic since primary education for girls is one of the most effective ways to fight the cycle of poverty and disease, reduce child death rates, improve nutrition, and promote democracy and development.
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Marriage also vastly reduces girls’ access to resources like social support and autonomy. Young married girls have little power relative to their husbands and parents-in-law, leaving them extremely vulnerable to abuse. Girls who are married young are twice as likely to report being beaten and three times as likely to report being forced to have sex than women who marry after 18 years of age (ICRW).
What is needed?
Promoting educational and economic opportunities for girls can reduce child marriage. Educating adolescent girls has been critical in increasing the age of marriage countries such as Indonesia, Sri Lanka, Taiwan, and Thailand. Working with parents and community leaders to increase these opportunities has delayed marriage for girls in parts of Kenya and Zimbabwe. Child marriage can be ended, but only with a more concerted effort to ensure the public, in all countries, are aware of the terrible toll child marriage takes on girls and their future children.
awesome i love it many thanks to you
That’s terrible Jonie, thanks for bringing this to our attention, the more we can do to raise awareness the better.
This is a relevant and important article and I am glad you brought it forth. Most of us do not live in cultures that allow this barbaric and cruel abuse of young female children so we tend to be unaware that this is happening. One of the biggest frustrations is how difficult it is to deal with many of the issues that promote this practice: the poverty, fear and ignorance, male domination in cultures where many women are treated as little more than chattel.
Can you imagine the strength and courage it took the eight year old Yemeni, Nujood Ali, to present herself before a court to demand that her marriage be dissolved?
When you think of the young female children you know, it gives a sharp and clear image of how atrocious this practice is…
And we think we have problems until we are made aware of others circumstances! TY for informing
That’s teeth-gritting awful.
Nicely written, but; Grrrrr!
Wow – again you leave us speechless with this information. Through education and bringing more and more exposure to this, hopefully we can help to bring about change.
Even here in the modern world people still cling to traditions, especially religious ones that do not serve us, instead cause more harm than good.
Where are the Human Rights? The world leaders should look into this. I wonder if we are this much weak to be afraid to say STOP the EXPLOITATION of Children!
Their body is not ready for having children and having a relationship with man that like fathers. They just use the little young girls as toys for their pleasure. It is a Voice crying in a Desert for MERCI for those girls!
Thank you Joni, I support your article!
Such sadness and horror in the world! Thanks for bringing this to our attention!
I know of many injustices in the world, but this girl to marry, I weighed that no longer existed, must be given to the world of these situations.
I quite agree…I am appalled at what goes on in most (but not all) Islamic countries…it occurs in other religions also I read once…there is however a snag to this it has been going on for centuries long before we even appeared on the scene…I will support this however as these facts cannot be denied…to be honest this practice to me is abhorrent…in some ways it seems like legalized paedophilia
Don’t know what to say – it’s awful
Thank you for writing such an important article! Spreading the awareness is crucial. Well done!
This is so tragic. They have to put a stop to this.
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Stop Child marriage. The man is like cow, fox, dog etc who married with a underage girl.
It really hurts me to know that people have done this and continue ,I’m sure there is another way ? I love kids I’m a teacher ! I wud never wish this cruel act upon anyone and these are not parents to do this ANYONE CAN HAVE A CHILD BUT THAT DOESNT MAKE U A PARENT !!!!
Grow Up And Be a Man these are little babies you are abusing,
The Lord Jesus is seeing this mess.